It’s OK to Hold People Accountable; and While You’re at It, Touch Some Grass

One thing about me, I’m gonna doom-scroll. In my 20 years, I have spent more than my fair share of time watching various video essays on the internet drama of the week and forming opinions on issues that are in no way, shape, or form my business. I say this not to justify my actions, but to preface what I’m about to say and prove that I am no “holier than thou” naysayer.

My generation, Gen Z, has caught a lot of flack for our constant need to be “politically correct,” “canceling” anyone who dares go outside of the social norm. While I agree that someone’s middle school actions are not representative of their current self (thank God, because I was unbearable) the decision to use and perpetuate harmful slurs, stereotypes, and actions is not something that can simply be looked over.

Any conversation requires nuance. The ability to look beyond the black and white and use one’s brain to dive into a situation is something that, I believe, most people of all ages are severely lacking. This does not mean that if someone chooses to use a slur, they should be immediately forgiven because they are a widely known and loved figure. If you don’t understand the harm that using slurs can do, well, I, as a white Kansan girl, can be of little help to help you understand, but I would recommend that you educate yourself because honestly, honey, you look silly.

On the other hand, if a figure is going viral for still buying a popular coffee brand during a boycott, well, perhaps we should hear them out.

Unless someone is a sociopath, no one sets out to hurt others; that’s psychotic behavior. The goal of holding people accountable for their words and/or actions should be to teach them that their behavior is unacceptable, as well as prevent future occurrences and give the party that they hurt justice. The “canceled” should not be receiving death threats or having their house SWATed (the action of sending the authorities to one’s house on false claims), but they should be held accountable. Unless a figure’s actions are irrevocably “offensive to your sensibilities” (Dr. Phil), their lives should not be ruined because they were a little rude to a fan or did not tip at a restaurant. Let’s leave the true cancellations for the Harvey Weinsteins of this world and allow the Jenna Marbles to learn and grow from their mistakes.

And just, for the love of God, girl, touch some grass.

Torie Price is a McPherson freshman studying journalism. You can follow her on Instagram.

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